Realizations (Manoj Karagudri): Real life experience.

We all have experienced the pain in our real lives. This pain made us tough by making us to find solutions to the problems we faced. It made us to realize the importance of moral values in real life. We experience the pain when we lose the basic necessities in life, like love, compassion, caring, brotherhood, identity, security and recognition.

I lost them when my father passed away. I realized that not all the respect and attention that I used to get was for real. It was a give and take due to the false ego of the society. It does not mean all are bad, but the natures balance of good and bad. Destiny takes its own ways. We feel as if we are puppets in the hands of the almighty power.

As my father was born rich, the community and society respected his power of wealth and influence. This is material wealth. I could see lose of material wealth due to the negligence in respect for moral values. I could see that the false ego of superiority lead to the destruction of individuality and self respect. The false fame of society, which respected the material wealth, gave a wicked manipulation of respect in order to achieve its greedy desire, to achieve the material wealth. The society praised him with appreciations as long as he was generous with his material wealth. This false fame of feel good materialized with an addiction for generosity. He lost his material wealth and had a sudden heart attack. Mishap was due to corruption, mismanagement and manipulation by the ones in whom he had faith and belief. They were all very close friends and relatives of his who appreciated his material richness and misguided him due to corruption and mismanagement. The whole of the system and management was manipulated.

I could see this in reality, right in front of my eyes. No doubt, I tried to avoid the mishap but to my surprise, I was blamed and deprived of my powers. They thought I was still a kid. I felt as if it was a maya of false fame. No doubt, I was constructive then but still nobody thought it was serious.

* I realized that true friends are those who help us in troubles.

* I realized that ideas are appreciated only when we express them.

* I realized that we have to create our own personalities in real life.

* I realized that true love, understanding, blessing and well wishes are very rare in this material life.

* It is a struggle to create this peaceful, secure and content society. As we realize that, we are a part of this society. We can be happy only when the people around us are happy. We realize that we have to be calm, gentle and humble to create it. We also have to confess, seek and pray to achieve them in real life. We have to be constructive thus to resolve the issues peacefully. We do not believe in getting frustrated with what we have already lost. We believe in learning from our mistakes. At the same time, we believe in creating and carving our future and personality with a persistence to be constructive without any frustrations. May be its tough and difficult, but stable and satisfactory. It relives our sole with satisfaction for the hard efforts. People tend to understand our views depending upon their personal experiences in real life. Again, it is the destiny, which makes people to meet. It gives them the wisdom to understand one another. If not there would have been no strong relationships. It is the real life experience and expectations, which should match to create understanding in building relationships. It is also true that we must not get frustrated when they do not match. We must not try to hide and manipulate the truth, at the same time we must resolve the issues peacefully with forgiveness and compassion. We must give a chance for the truth to manifest. As we cannot conclude and decide until and unless the truth is revealed and conceived. Life is nothing but an effort to find those who can understand.

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